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Sex and Relationships Articles for Men
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Finding a relationship is harder than you think.
by Loveworth.com
Have you ever asked yourself that you were going to find someone and be in a relationship, and then you realized it was harder than you have thought?
Everyone goes through this stage and it’s kind of funny that most people plan how they are going to do it and where it’s going to take place. One thing that they forgot is WHEN they are going to do it. I remember in High School, I told myself that I would find someone and be in relationship after I graduate. Five years later, I am still single and keep telling myself ‘when’. There were a few opportunities in front of me that got to waste and now I am stuck writing my thoughts about love and relationships.
One thing I learned is never say something you might not do unless you conquer a fear. My fear was and still is rejection. Everyone gets rejected once in a while--whether is not being accepted for a particular college or not getting a student loan to pay off your classes. These situations are not the best feeling in the world, but we got to move on. Finding a relationship is harder than you think. If you think you can just walk up to someone and end up dating them, you have a 25% chance. Let me tell you why.
First, you do not know that person. Walking up to a complete stranger is creepy for them unless they are open-minded. There goes your 25% (75% remaining).
Second, if they are not freaked out by your approach, you will have to initiate a good conversation as well as carry it. First impression is always important. If they are turned off by your conversation, there goes another 25%. (50% remaining)
Third, if you pass first and second, you have a 50% chance to get their number. If you do, call them up and set up a date. However, do it the very next day. (Still 50% remaining)
Finally, the person agreed to spend a day with you. You do everything fine up until you fall into that “qualifying trap”. You know, basically answering their questions while not trying to mess up. If you don’t impress them, there goes another 25%. (25% remaining)
There you go, you have a 25% percent chance to get a second date. If the person agrees for second date, most likely they thought about giving you another chance. To increase your chances, you need to do what the situation takes you. Do not go overboard and try to impress that person with words. Remember this, actions speak louder than words. Let them see what you like to do. Be in a situation that you feel comfortable in. You will reel them into your comfort level.
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Last Updated ( Friday, 30 May 2008 )
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